Wednesday 26 October 2011

HOW TO MOTIVATE OTHERS

   You may think that it is easy to motivate others, but that depends on their personality, as well as yours. You may not be the type of person who can aspire someone, however, you may be just the point to motivate a dear loved one to find something that they truly feel passionate about. You may want to think about how you say things before you say it though.
 
   When you think about the way that you are coming off to the other then you should be able to have what it takes to motivate someone. When it comes to the way that you say things you are going to have to look at the way that you are approaching the subject, the tone of voice that you are using, as well as, the words that you use. When it comes to communication people do not realize that it might not be what they are saying, but how they are saying it. You want to make sure that you are able to communicate your message appropriately.
 
The first thing that you want t do is take out the ‘you’ in your words. When you use words like “ I think You.” you are going to find that someone is going to get on the defense. You are going to find that others are going to take you the wrong way and things are going to come out right.
 
   You are going to also want to take out all the negative comments out of your motivational speech. You cannot motivate someone by putting them down. You cannot try to get someone to move by pushing them. It just does not work that way. You will need to watch the words that you use and the way that you say them so that you are able to positively reinforce everything that you would like to say and inspire the person.
 
   However, for you to get the picture as much as the person that you are trying to motivate, you are going to have to learn how to listen. Listening can be very hard when you are use to doing all the speaking. However, you are going to need to learn how to or you will never be able to fully communicate with someone.
 
   Before you go and try to talk to someone about getting him or her to find some motivation you are going to have to ask yourself why it is important for him or her to find something. This is important because you don’t want to confuse your motives with the situation. You need to motivate someone because you want the best for him or her, not because of what you lack in your life.
 
   It’s hard to motivate anyone. All you have to do is make sure that you are there for the person and that you are there for them when they need you. This is important because it is your support that will motivate them to reach out for bigger and better things. If you are able to just be a friend to the person, you will find that eventually you will encourage them to be a better person.
 
   There are so rules on how to encourage someone. All you have to do is be there for them as a support system and keep the communication lines open. You will also want to keep suggesting new ideas so that they may find something that motivates them. This is a great way to begin a stronger and closer relationship with someone and help him or her find the right path. Anyone who is able to be a good friend can motivate a person to reach out for bigger and better things. Anyone who is able to be a good friend can motivate a person to reach out for bigger and better things.

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